Manolo says, here is the Manolo’s latest column for the Express of the Washington Post. Dear Manolo, My fabulous cousin, whose birthday is the day after mine, and has been an anchor through many crises, turned 40 a couple of weeks ago. I’m sorry to say I had to miss her surprise party because I was away on a business trip. But, it is not too late for giving wonderful surprise birthday presents. Might you have a suggestion? Monica Manolo says, perhaps it is the gypsy in the Manolo, but the Manolo cannot help but love the giant, big families,…